INTRODUCTION
Who,
what, when?
This is a short letter from the apostle Paul to a friend
of his, a man he had previously led to Christ. He is writing to this friend,
Philemon, about a runaway slave, Onesimus, who has become a Christian
and who Paul is sending back.
From Paul's letter to the Colossians, we can infer that Philemon
lived in Colossae because Archippus is referred to there (Col 4:17 &
Phile 2) and Onesimus is referred to as coming with the main letter (Col
4:9). It would seem therefore that this present letter was written by
Paul at the same time as his letter to the Christians at Colossae
Why?
The initial answer to, “Why this letter?” is obvious by the content
of the letter. Paul was appealing to Philemon to receive Onesimus back
as a brother rather than a slave (and tradition has it that Philemon did
that and freed Onesimus). But there is a bigger question: why should this
short letter be included in the canon of Scripture? Well, we'll leave
you to think about that as you go through the four studies, and we'll
make comment at the end. Because it is such a short letter, if you can
put aside say an hour you could go through these studies in one sitting.
Chapter:
Philemon
Passage:
Philemon
1-7
A.
Find Out:
1.
To whom does Paul write? v.1,2
2.
Why does Paul thank God for them? v.4,5
3.
What does he pray for and why? v.6
4.
What have their love done for him? v.7
B.
Think:
1.
What relationship does Paul seem to have with these people?
2.
What are we told about these people?
3.
How is this a very personal letter?
C.
Comment:
Paul writes not to a church but to three people, and to one
of them in particular. Philemon is considered a dear friend
– there is a sense of closeness in this. Paul's thoughts of them always
generates thankfulness (v.4). Why? Because a) of their faith
– that is their relationship with the Lord and b) their love – that is
their attitude and actions towards people. That two-fold concern is always
at the heart of Paul's desires for other people – that their relationship
with God, and to others is flowing and growing. In these people, it clearly
is!
But Paul isn't content with that, he doesn't only write to
them to hold their present position, he wants them to be ever reaching
out to others (v.6) and this, says Paul, will enlarge the parameters of
you understanding your faith. Why? Because when you share the love of
God with others it helps you realise the wonder of it, and as they respond
and come to Christ, you take on a spiritual parenting role, which in itself
enlarges and matures you.
These people had blessed Paul greatly (v.7) because of the way
they had blessed others; they had “refreshed the hearts of the saints”.
What a beautiful phrase! Their love had reached out and touched others
and picked them up, strengthened and blessed them. That in its turn had
blessed Paul.
D.
Application:
1.
Are we reaching out to others, so that our understanding of our faith
is
growing daily?
2.
Are we those who “refresh the hearts” of others around us, so that they
are picked up, strengthened and blessed?
Chapter:
Philemon
Passage:
Philemon
8-12
A.
Find Out:
1.
What did Paul say he could do? v.8
2.
Yet what did he rather do? v.9
3.
On whose behalf does he speak? v.10a
4.
How had Onesimus changed? v.10b,11
5.
So what was Paul doing? v.12
B.
Think:
1.
How is Paul's authority revealed here?
2.
How does Paul appear to Philemon?
3.
What other information can we glean about Paul here?
C.
Comment:
This letter really needs reading in its entirety if we are to make
sense of parts of it. We're going to see that Onesimus is a slave, a runaway
slave who had previously belonged to Philemon – and Paul had met him,
brought him to Christ, and was now sending him home.
However, he emphasises the point, he's not sending back the same
person who ran away, he's sending a Christian slave home (v.10).
Previously he had been an ordinary slave – indeed not a very good servant
– but now his whole outlook on life has been changed, he's now a valuable
and capable servant. There is a play on words here by Paul. You'll see
if you look at the footnote for verse 10 that Onesimus means ‘useful'.
In coming to Christ he has fulfilled his potential and now he matches
his name!
Now Philemon could treat a runaway returning slave harshly, but
Paul is appealing to his old friend to receive him back in quite a different
way. As an apostle, probably as the spiritual father to this church, he
could instruct or command Philemon, but he comes with the same grace he
is hoping for in Philemon.
For us living in the 21 st century this is perhaps a difficult
situation to understand, but slavery was the norm for those days. Some
slaves actually became part of the family, but other slave owners harshly
treated their slaves as mere goods or possessions. The owner was all powerful
in respect of the slave. This is why Paul writes as he does.
D.
Application:
1.
Slavery is dehumanising and wrong, let's be clear about that.
2.
We can deal with wrongs by Law and by grace. Be wise.
Chapter:
Philemon
Passage:
Philemon
12-16
A.
Find Out:
1.
What was Paul doing about Onesimus? v.12
2.
What would he have liked to have done? v.13
3.
But why was he now acting as he is? v.14
4.
What suggestion does he put up? v.15
5.
How does he say Onesimus now comes to Philemon? v.16
B.
Think:
1.
What are we told about Onesimus in these verses?
2.
How does Paul approach Philemon in these verses?
3.
What general lesson does that give?
C.
Comment:
In these verses Paul reveals his heart towards two people – one
a friend and church leader, the other a friend and slave. Let's consider
the slave first.
When he speaks of Onesimus he says “who is my very heart”. That
speaks of the very closest of feelings possible. That's what he feels
about this converted slave – he's now part of Paul's heart. In fact Paul
would really like to keep him with him to support him while he's in prison,
but he feels there is a better way he must follow, that of sending him
home to his master, who just happens to be Paul's old friend.
Now let's consider Philemon. Paul has just appealed to him on the
basis of love (v.9) and he clearly wants to win Philemon's heart so that
he will respond spontaneously and not out of duty (v.14). In the way he
speaks to Philemon he reveals his belief in Philemon, in his spirituality
and in his faith. He suggests that perhaps what happened with Onesimus
running away was in fact part of a divine plan (inferred) to enable Onesimus
to come to Christ, so that Philemon could have a brother back, not a slave.
In all of this we are confronting a major doctrine in the New Testament,
that when a person comes to Christ they become an entirely new person
(e.g. Jn 1:12 ,13, 3:3, 2 Cor 5:17 , Gal 3:28). This letter is the only
place in the New Testament where this new equality is spelled out in such
clarity in respect of such roles and relationships being annulled. This
takes away ALL divides!
D.
Application:
1.
Who do I look down on? I'm wrong!
2.
In Christ, all Christians are the same – brothers and sisters.
Chapter:
Philemon
Passage:
Philemon
17-25
A.
Find Out:
1.
How does Paul ask Philemon to view him? v.17a
2.
What does he ask Philemon to do? v.17b-19
3.
What further does he ask of him? v.20
4.
What does he feel sure of? v.21
5.
What further request does he make, and why? v.22
6.
Who also were sending greetings? v.23,24
B.
Think:
1.
How does Paul put a personal touch to this letter?
2.
How does he play on his relationship with Philemon?
3.
What is he trying to achieve?
C.
Comment:
Paul has just been saying how Onesimus is now so different
and is likely to be more useful to him in the future than he has been
in the past, because of his change of heart when he became a Christian.
It then obviously crosses Paul's mind that maybe Philemon had lost out
somehow because of Onesimus running away. It's OK, he says, if you've
lost out in any way, charge it to me. Look, he goes on, seeking to make
Philemon realise how much Paul is putting himself out, I'm actually writing
this with my own hand. Writing was more of an effort in those days and
usually Paul had a scribe write as he dictated. This letter is too important,
is what he implies, to not do it myself. I want you to realise, he is
saying, that in every way I can, I want to convey how important I believe
this issue is.
Then he plays his trump card: actually, he reminds Philemon, you
owe me your life – presumably because Paul led him to Christ – so I'd
like to put a claim on that life now. I want you to bless me. I'm confident,
knowing you as I do, that you will respond well to my requests and (to
raise the ante even more), I'm hoping to be out of this prison soon and
I'll be coming to see you. There is a sense here that Paul knows he is
crossing a cultural divide with this slave issue, and so he is pulling
out all the stops for Onesimus and Philemon.
D.
Application:
1.
Do we have such friendships as are shown in this letter?
2.
Are there people who owe their lives to us? There should be!
SUMMARY
/ CONCLUSION
Because
this is such a short letter, we'll run the Summary and Conclusion in together.
In
these 25 verses we have seen:
v.1-3
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Paul's
greeting to Philemon and his household |
v.4-7
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Paul's
thankfulness in prayer for them |
v.8-21
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Paul's
plea on behalf of Onesimus |
|
v.8-11
The appeal on the basis of love
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|
v.12-16
He is sending him back as a brother in Christ
|
|
v.17-21
Receive as you receive me and charge me for any loss you've
had.
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v.22
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Paul's
hope to come to them soon |
v.23-25
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Greetings
from others with Paul, & final blessing |
Why
this Letter in the Bible?
Why should such a simple and short letter be included
in the Scriptures? There could, perhaps, be at least two reasons for this.
First, because it is just another letter from the great apostle
Paul and it reveals more about him and more about the relationships he
had with others who he's brought to the Lord.
Second, because it actually underlines and illustrates something
that Paul taught elsewhere (Gal 3:28 ), that in Christ there are to be
no social divides. Because Onesimus has become a Christian, he is now
a brother to Philemon which, in many ways, undermines the whole social
structure that had existed before – of master and slave. We cannot emphasise
this enough: in a day when slavery was the norm, centuries before Christians
would stand against the practice, this is some of the MOST radical teaching
possible.
How could the slave owners of black slaves in America have continued
if they were Christians and slaves became Christians? How could Apartheid
in South Africa have continued where many whites claimed to be Christians
and had black Christian servants? The answer can only be that they were
blinded to the teaching of Paul and particularly blind to this letter.
Sin does that in us.
But the challenge must be greater than that for us today. If we
are Christians, do we look down on anybody in a different social class
from us? If we do, we're no better than the slave masters and it means
that we haven't taken on board the thrust of this simple letter. As Paul
says, “you are all one in Christ” (Gal 3:28 ) May it be so!
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